Anonymous asked: "I know i'm only 12 but i only wear a 34A cup but can fit into a 30A if i wanted to. I just got my second period a week ago and still have no breast growth. My mom wears at least a D cup and so does my grandma on my dads side, but my dad has high testosterone. Will they ever grow.-. P.S ur blog is amazing"
This is one of those cases where they actually might grow! You still have a lot of puberty to go. Mine got bigger in the last couple years (16/17 yo), even though I’ve had my period since I was 12 and breast growth since I was 8. Even if they don’t grow that’s fine. Love yourself for who you are!
Anonymous asked: "I bought a bra maybe 34A and I think i'm 32A or less and when i wear clothes with it, it looks normal and comfortable but isn't it gonna look weird and suspicious?"
Nope! I mean, unless someone knows you really well, they’re not going to notice a tiny difference in your boob size. (And if they’re polite, they won’t mention it.)
asked: "You beautiful girls need to remember that if you're brunette, some people still go for blondes; if you're tall, some people only go for short. Personally, I don't like outie bellybuttons on a dude. I think it looks terrible. It's not a big deal if a guy or a girl you like likes more endowed people. There are people out there for small titties. I'm 24, 34A when i pack on a few pounds and I still get all the loving I deserve, from myself and my lover. Don't worry about it!"
asked: "You should all remember that if someone makes a comment about your chest, they might just be an asshole. Don't let your first thought be that you're less of a woman, worthless or ugly. Let that first thought be, "How inappropriate of this person to make a negative comment about any part of me". And blow them off because that's not the type of person that deserves any attention from you. The people who make comments are usually teen boys anyway; I've never heard a grown up man whine or complain."
Anonymous asked: "do you accept submissions? I'd really like to post a comparison of how my favourite crop top looks on me with and without a bra"
Sure, just put it in the /submit.
Anonymous asked: "It was today that I realized I have never seen an ugly woman. Maybe if you compare someone to a model it can seem so, but think about how she looks on her own. She is different, she deserves respect, she deserves to know that she is beautiful, and she deserves to be confident."
hidden benefit 5342 to having small boobs: you can wear dresses designed for prepubescent children
Anonymous asked: "Flat chests are a trigger now? That's crap. Where I'm from, girls with small busts get torn down more than the opposite side of spectrum. Heck, there was one girl who didn't go to school for a while because a group of people were trying to force her to become a demiboy because she "didn't look entirely like a girl." I'm sorry, but if people think girls who can't help that is triggering... I'm starting to think it's not a trigger, they just want to tear down people."
You might be right.
And what kind of awful people would do that? :o
This is the main reason for my general annoyance with lack of size regulation in the fashion industry…
men’s pants are labeled by waist and inseam measurement. women’s pants are labeled by voodoo. even though i do not buy women’s pants, i can recognize this as objectively dumb.
THE NOTES ON THIS
because i can’t stress this enough. this is why i don’t let the numbers get to me. as jumpingjacktrash so eloquently said “women’s pants are labeled by voodoo.”
so when boys make fun of girls taking forever to shop and trying everything on
WE FUCKING HAVE TO OR NOTHING WILL FIT